Celebrating Dr. Mary Luins Small: With a Smile

Prepared by: Dr. Naomi Warren

March 16, 2014

Dearest friend, sister, and mother. These are the words that come to mind when I think of Dr. Small. Our paths first crossed in 1997 when she hired me to teach English composition at Huston-Tillotson College. And, thus began a precious friendship that lasted for almost 20 years. Dr. Small adopted me into her family – a transplant from Los Angeles – camped out in Austin.

I was an aspiring doctoral student at the University of Texas at Austin, and Dr. Small’s kindness, smiles, and guidance, reassured me that there was light at the end of the tunnel. After all, she was a stellar example of that light – not only for me, but also for other graduate students of color who were making their way through UT: David Humphreys, Juandalynn Taylor, and Vera Walker. Each sends condolences. We were blessed to have sat under Dr. Small’s tutelage.

Over the years, Dr. Small and I shared numerous “extended” phone chats – sometimes prompting Bob to pick up and ask if we were still talking. Indeed, talking to Dr. Small was always a treat, and if we happened to chat on Sunday, the call would surely end shortly before “60 Minutes” – a program she never missed. In this, we were kindred spirits, for I had grown up watching “60 Minutes” with my parents.

Dr. Small was brilliant – and a treasure trove of knowledge and counsel that she lovingly sprinkled throughout our conversations. Paper and pen were always on hand during our chats to make note of a book, article, organization, place, or person that I should look up, to enrich my understanding of the many issues we covered.

Dr. Small was a consummate educator and a wonderful person. Although I will miss her caring nature, her laughter, and her smile, fond memories will keep her spirit alive. She was the first person who called me Nay, oh so matter-of-factly – like a dear friend, sister, or mother. It is a nickname that I will cherish.

To Bob, Evan, Darien, and Thomas. Thank you for sharing Dr. Small with me.